Dear Demetria:

“So this is a long one....and quite embarrassing. This passed weekend. I go out to dinner with a guy I've been dating for a month now. It's our 6th time hanging out. Sometimes I drive and sometimes he does. Always been just dinner, comedy club, maybe lounge and then home.

He has never been to my house, I've never been to his. Well after dinner I do go back to his house, we have sex for the 1st [time], protected of course . However at 4 am I wake up, being the light sleeper I am, to a mad woman standing over us in bed. She proceeds to beat on him, and scream every curse...

"Word in the book. I'm just as pissed, mostly shocked. What shocks me even more is after I explain I didn't know about her. She picks up a clothing iron and bangs me in the chest with it. I start getting up to leave, he grabs her and she goes off the deep end. Mad that he is protecting me.

"Well she starts beating him with the iron in the head.... [I] have on panties and a t-shirt and can't get the door open, she throws the iron at my head, I duck and it hits my arm. I run outside with no shoes on, no pants in the cold rain since she busted his head open and will definitely bust mine.