How Important Is Good Sex?

Several friends and I have a (almost) daily email thread where we chat about random topics all day. This was yesterday’s discussion: Kelly: What do you do if you're falling in love with someone not giving you the best sex of your life? Like mediocre sex, not even top echelon. Is that a deal breaker?

Noah: I had an issue along those lines once. ....sex especially good sex is top 2(right after hot plates) on my list so it’s not a go, unless she is willing to learn and I am willing to train. Love is very hard to find. Btw, I've had great sex with bad people (they're called jump-offs)

Marcus: Average sex isn't a deal breaker for love. But you do need to address the issue.

Kelly: Love is hard to find, no doubt.But could you potentially commit to wack sex for the rest of your life? Chills run through me when I think of being married with weak sex.

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