Giving to Get: A Revolutionary Concept

I’ve been accused of being hard spirited and hard on men too. Maybe I am. I have expectations of decency and behavior that I think the man in my life should meet. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. I want a man who takes out the trash and fixes what’s broken in the house and assumes responsibility for moving all heavy objects and killing insects and investigates bumps in the night as much as a man wants a woman who cooks and cleans and washes clothes and decorates. I’m not sure how reasonable my expectations are these days, but we all have certain wants and desires. It’s human. The question is: ‘what are we doing to get those wants, desires and expectations met?’

I think not much...

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